I like Terese Rondo better than Elizabeth Kubler-Ross..

Terese Rondo's 6-R Processes of Grief

Recognize the Loss
React to the separation
Recollect and re-experience the deceased and the relationship
Relinquish the old attachments to the deceased and the old assumptive world
Readjust to move adaptively into the new world without forgetting the old
Re-invest in Life